How do I get my old friend back?

Question

Before, I used to be really good friends with this really cool guy. We use to talk about the same stuff, crack so many inside jokes, and we used to hang out all the time. But just all of the sudden, he stopped hanging out with me. He just started hanging out with his other friends. Its like he didn't know me anymore. Even when I say something to him, he just nods and thats just about it. We even have the same classes together and its like that. I didnt do anything to make him mad. Now, we occasionally say hi and thats just about it. I want to know how to become friends with him again. Im not forcing anything, I just want to know how we can be friends. What do you think? What do I do?

Answer 1

I'm afraid that he's changed and you aren't that interesting to him anymore. This is pretty shallow of him, but it happens a lot in adolescence. You can't make anything happen here. You have no control over his choices. All you can do is focus on yourself and on other people.

Answer 2

ask him to hang.

Answer 3

yaaaa...been dere nd unfortunatly did da bad thing which ruined our friendship, i didnt say anything for 5 months, lead her to believe i'd b dere for last resort, i was very naive thinking we would still have the same closeness even though she was becoming friends with other people, i never said anything though, everynite last yr we could talk for 2 hours solid, but dat became 15 mins a month, we started slipping away so much but i didnt say anything because she'd make a big deal and deny anything was changing, so i advise if ya want to try and fix things, spend time with him, go places, shopping, cinema, watever, just u and him, and mayb just mention mayb the fact you're feeling ye are slightly drifting away and that you want to save the friendship because it means so much to you, mayb you try ringing him for a talk and if all this doesnt work mayb he should b left to his other friends, his new friends mit soon see wat he is lyk too, just try talking to him b4 things get too far, i no its hard but some1 has to take the first step nd if you want to save it!!!!

best of luck, nd if it doesnt work out, keep your chin up, carry on, smile nd make new friends, he mitnt b worth all da hassle!!!xxxxxx