How do I get my wife more interested in the bedroom?

Question

My wife is 16 weeks along and seems to have no interest anymore, which is completely different then before! Any help on making her interested in me again??

Answer 1

... dude: she's pregnant.  

Ever heard of hormones before?

Chill out until her last trimester - then she'll prolly be on you like spaghetti sauce on a meatball.

Answer 2

Just be patient.  I am 19 weeks along and until about a week ago I was completely uninterested.  It was nothing against my husband.  I was tired, moody, feeling fat and just not into it.  16th week is tough cuz you really just look and feel fat instead of pregnant.  Its discouraging.  But as soon as it was obviously a pregnant belly and not a beer gut, i started feeling s**y again.  I don't know if it was just the hormones or what, but now my husband is begging for a night of NO s*x.  Its not unheard of for me to wake him up at 4am out of a dead sleep and make him do it lol.   Be careful what you wish for...and be patient.  For her sake.  Please.  Its enough pressure worrying about labor, birth, finances and parenting.  Guilt over not performing her wifely duties may only make her withdraw.

Answer 3

Tell her she's beautiful and you're amazed how she can handle everything.  She might be tired, or having body image issues, or just hormonal.  If she's showing a little you can try to find some s**y maternity clothes.  If less energy is her problem you can help by picking up some of her daily chores around the house.