How do I get my wife to stop pressuring me over s*x?

Question

She wants it all the time and I am too tired.....Yeah, this sounds weird I know but she wants it like everyday 2-3 times a day....so, will she ever slow down? Is she a candidate to be a cheater? I don't have the energy anymore. HELP!?!?

Answer 1

buy her a toy, she can enjoy a roger rabbit, while you sleep.

Answer 2

In my case I would say she could cheat if she feels that you are not giving her what she needs.  You both need to come to a decision that you can both live with.

Answer 3

ya she could be a candadate to cheat!

Answer 4

she is trying to get pregnant without telling you that...be alert!!

and yes, if you cant fulfill her needs, like anyone, that person will seek out someone who can, eventually.

Answer 5

I also have that same problem and unfortunately for us....MANKIND has not made any progress on this important issue that is in our midst... that is threatening our society.This type of women probably belongs to some kind of genetic mutation never been able to catch the attention of scientists worldwide because they are afraid of the magnitude of the havoc it will bring upon the feminist society.  

Answer 6

Dude, you need to take some energy drinks, or energy pills...... Try some No Explode.....gives you so much energy ( its for weighlifting , but h**l, you are workingout just as hard ). You have a good thing going...... don't let her go looking for it somewhere else...

Answer 7

Mr Goober, it is time to call in the reinforcements.  You need a buddy or two to help you out.  It will allow you some time to rest and have a few drinks with your buddies, while they take turns servicing your wife.  I think it will be a win, win situation for all involved.  Plus you will never have to ask permission to have the guys over.  Good luck.

Answer 8

I understand you get tired, we all do.  But ALL THE TIME!  I don't understand why you can't please your wife.  You said you are just too tired to have s*x with her any more, instead of trying to compromise by you doing it more and her getting it a little less.  It sounds to me you lost interest in your wife or you are g*y.

Answer 9

I too wanted s*x all the time when I was younger, It certainly doesn't mean she would cheat or that she is a ho!  We have different needs through our life span, I certainly understand being too tired myself!  My situation is now reversed and my husband wants it every night and I never want it after having kids now.  Explain to her that you do desire her and love her, and then compromise.  Set up date nights if possible and buy her a good vibrator if she doesn't allready have one.  Good luck.

Answer 10

I know this is some what of a serious concern for you but if you only knew how many guys out there WISH they had your problem ,,,, LOL ,,,, With out even looking  I know you are going to get some moronic replies to this from  both males and females but pay them no mind ,,,, They are simple minded ,,,,But getting back to the issue ,,,, This is more of a male trait than female although there are some women like your wife ,,,,  You need to REV up fella ,,,, If you've got an interest in your wife's needs then it's time for you to make an appointment with your physician and determine whether there might be something wrong that he could help you with ,,,,It could very well be that you might require a testosterone therapy program to enhance your libido ,,,,   It's usually females I advise about this because they are more prone to this libido problem than males ,,,, In fact you are the first male I've come across with this difficulty ,,,,

I don't  know you or your wife and neither does anyone else so they can't know or predict whether she's a candidate for cheating or not  but obviously she has needs and you are the only one she can turn to in order to get them satisfied within the bonds of matrimony ,,,, She looks to you for help with this because she wants to remain faithful ,,,, You didn't mention your age and I could be wrong  but I would guess you are in or around your mid 20's or maybe a little older ,,,, 30 maybe ?,,,,  At that age you both should be a ball of fire ,,,, The age doesn't matter so much as the problem though ,,,,  It's most likely that she's going through a phase and this will subside to a more acceptable level in time ,,,, See a doctor about this ,,,, It very well may be that he can help you ,,,, It's not only for your wife but you as well ,,,,  Give it a shot ,,,, It can't hurt and it could serve to avoid any possible trouble that could arise from this ,,,,  

I sincerely hope you can find a solution to this because it can be very frustrating ,,,, Just maintain an open line communication between the both of you ,,,, That's an important factor in any marriage ,,,,  

Yoda told you this ,,,,    //

Answer 11

talk to her

resentment will set in if you don't and that makes everything worse

Answer 12

shes a hoe!

Answer 13

You need to make sure she understands you find her attractive and are not turning her down for any other reason than you are tired. I want s*x more than my husband and when he use to turn me down, it would hurt my feelings so bad, now I know its not me, its just him. Of course he is older than me by 10 yrs and while I still want it all the time, his libido has slowed down. Marriage is compromise no matter what the issue. Talk to your wife, get off Yahoo, and tell her not us.  

Answer 14

Talk about other ways you guys can have an erotic time without you having to exert so much energy. Go to a s*x shop together and get her some toys. She can play with herself while you watch, and even join in, but not strain yourself and you can both still have fun. It doesn't mean she'll turn into a cheat. At least I hope not, but I don't know her. How do you feel about it?

Answer 15

My guess is that you give her no o****m....My second guess is you think that your p***s is for HER pleasure...

Sweets, your p***s is for YOUR pleasure, your hands and mouth are for hers..... and if you know what you are doing, she wouldn't need it three times in one day.... If you knew how to give her one of those orgasms where her eyes roll into the back of her head, that's about all she would need for a week.

So, hon, it ain't her, it's you.  Perhaps you aren't the lover/partner you think you are.

Read a book called "For Each Other by Lonnie Barbach... THE s*x therapist alive today.  You, hon, have a lot to learn.

Answer 16

are you g*y?

Answer 17

It will eventually stop. Then you will be the one wanting it because sooner or later she's going to get tired of it.

If you guys are newlyweds then this is common. Just wait it out. Its not that big of a deal.

Or you can also tell her can we keep it to once a day because i need to slow down. ahah.

Good Luck?? haha this is strange cause usually it's the other way around.

Answer 18

yea if you dont take care of buisness inbetween those legs she gona start looking for other people to do it for her

Answer 19

Just keep saying NO.  Over and over, and when she finds another c*ck to satisfy her you can relax and take a nap.

Answer 20

Hey my husband and I would go up to 5 times. Did she just get frisky or did you die down? There has to be some kind of compromise. You can't be like no not today. How you like it if she did that to you?  Drink some Red Bull and get on with it! Wait a minute....what did you mean by ....WITH THE SAME WOMAN. Sounds like you would like to do it with someone else rather than her.If you are bored during s*x then there are some problems in the bed.Hmmm.  

Answer 21

How old is she? That has a lot to do with her hormone levels and that makes a difference with how needed she is or can be. Women go through peeks just like men do.

You and her need to talk.

Yes it is very important that her needs as well as yours are met but there does need to be a compromise.

Answer 22

You are one weird man. Your woman wants to f*** you 3 times a day....and you say NO!!! woooooowwww.

Answer 23

Yeah some men can do it with the same women a couple times a day. My boyfriend and I always do it a couple times a day and have been together for 3 years

Answer 24

How old is she? If she is in her 30's she is in her prime and there is no stopping her.  

Answer 25

You don't have the energy anymore?  What's wrong with you?  Obviously, your priorities are skewed.  You should get more sleep, exercise regularly, eat a healthier diet, and even cut down on your number of work hours if you have to.  Do whatever it takes to have more s*x!

Answer 26

Maybe you should try talking to her, and telling her that doing it once in a while is fine with you...but doing it 2-3 times a day, is too much for you to handle. Talking and Communicating with her is the only right thing to do. That's the only way, she's going to know how you feel about this situation =) She'll understand ...

Answer 27

Honestly I am not sure if she is a candidate to be a cheater, but it is clear that you need to sit down and have a serious talk about this. Communication between the two of you is what is most important.