How do I get out of this situation?

Question

My dad is verbally abusive, and my mom isn't abusive in any way other than she doesn't stop my dad...at all...I'm fifteen, and have three more years before I can leave. How do I get out of the situation sooner? I don't want to get in trouble...but I need help. I can't handle this anymore.

Answer 1

verball abusive. ignore

Answer 2

Try talking to your dad face to face about his whole attitude. Let him know that him being verbally abusive really hurts you and you can't take it anymore.

Really talk to him on a calm level and just let him know everything you are feeling. Also, to try to prevent an argument, tell him that you love him very much and you need him in your life. This will definitely make him look at you like "wow, she's really serious".

If this doesn't work, talk to your mother about living with another relative. I'm pretty sure your mother has talked to your dad times and times again about him being verbally abusive. But if all this doesn't work, just ask your mother about living with an aunt or your grandparents or something.

If she doesn't want to do this and things do not get better with time in your home, I say talk to a guidance counselor because once you get an authority member of your school involved, ITS ON! ;)

They take things like this seriously, and if things still don't get better, they will send social services to your house and MAKE you stay with someone else in your family.

Keep hope alive!!

And I really hope that everything works out for the best.

God Bless You

Answer 3

I'm very sorry that you have to go thru this.  Here are a few things you may consider.  You could go to church tomorrow and find peace in knowing that you are loved by God.  Then see about getting a job that doesn't interfere with school (maybe babysitting) and start saving your money.  Plan for your future- you can have a terrific future if you take the time to prepare for it.  Pray, develop a relationship with Jesus Christ.  God will give you strength and comfort to endure the verbal abuse.  Pray, ask God to give you the right words to say to your father then have a talk with both your father and mother.  God bless you.

Answer 4

ignore and don't take after your father, nor should you accept from anyone else in the future.

just because you grow up with it doesn't make it right.  good luck

Answer 5

I would just say ignore it  But maybe you could just try talking to your dad before you take any serious steps. If it is bad to where you really cant take it there is always the option to emancipate yourself.

Answer 6

Just don't listen to anything he says, ignore him. Sticks and Stones will Break your Bones but Words should never Hurt you because they are only words.

Answer 7

Hang out with your friends more.