How do I get over feeling shy about taking nude pictures and talking dirty for my husband?

Question

My husband has just recently showed interest in taking nude pictures of me with his cell phone. Last night he found out that he can take videos with his cell phone. He asked me to get nude, and touch myself at the same time talking dirty to him. This is while he was recording. I have never done anything like this before, so of course I felt silly. I want to do this stuff with him, but don't know how to act. Can someone give me some advice. HELP!!

Answer 1

  You just do.  Remember if you can't fufill this fantasy he will find someone(probably online) who can.

Answer 2

I am all for naked photography.

I would practice with out the camera first then, if you think you will be ok with this, invest in a more suitable camera, possibly one that takes pictures and videos and does nothing more, that way it is not something he has to take in public where he could potentially louse it.

Also I don't let anyone take pictures or videos of me unless I really really trust them.

I agree with a previous answer in that you should look at some p**n so as to know how to act.

Answer 3

I don't know that I can help here.  I'd feel pretty uncomfortable with my nude image and dirty talk on a cell phone that could get dropped or lost or shown to others.  What if your husband lost his phone???? Or someone got hold of it????  Maybe you can do that stuff without actually taking pictures, or maybe if he erases them immediately.

Answer 4

My advice: Don't do it. These things always get in the wrong hands. What does he want to do with the pictures/video anyway?

Answer 5

Nude photos of you floating around it's no good.  He could be showing those photos, e-mailing them, or they could be used against you if you ever got a divorce or came into some money.  I would refuse to have any nude photos or videos taken.  Not only is it making you uncomfortable, but it is degrading and there are a lot of potential problems to those photos being around.  If you can delete those photos or videos, I would do so.  I'm not in favor of snooping, but in this case I would get rid of them.  Take the phone to the store with him and make sure those photos are deleted and say no to future photos.

Answer 6

Ask him to demonstrate. Seriously...lots of guys turn on like this...and better you than the internet...just make sure it's a two-way street! Good luck and God bless. Have fun with it!

Answer 7

Get a camcorder, not a cell phone as that is easily lost or stolen.  Then watch some p**n so that you can get an idea, then get comfortable with yourself and your husband, have him interact with you first until you become more comfortable with the situation.

Answer 8

like for getting over any anxiety, the more your exposed to it the more you'll get over it.

Answer 9

The pics and recording part - stay away from that.  It's going to lead to trouble....now, the posing for him alone....if my girl did that I would be blissfully happy and turned on to the max.  skip the vids.

Answer 10

I think he needs to help you with that, probably being nice, s**y and loving to you, (without the cell phone first) could make you feel like doing something new instead of being commanded to do something you've never done before and recorded at the same time! Everyone feels a little silly when being recorded, and I'm saying, in any circumstance, now I can imagine nude.  He should help you get in the mood.  And of course, I'm assuming you want to do it and he's going to download the pictures somewhere safe for your video not to end up in the eyes of strangers, friends, family and children.