How do I get over my crush?

Question

okay, well, i'm like totally obsessed with this guy that i've crushed on for the past year. He looks at me once in a while but i mean... he has a girlfriend. So there's no way he likes me and anyway, the whole obsession thing is annoying my friends and i just want to get over him before he ends up hating me or i get seriously hurt. any help?

Answer 1

ill tell you what if he gots a girl just leave it alone its not gonna happen find another crush because you'll just be heartbroken like the d**n girls at my school knowing d**n well i go with somebody and they still tell me that they like me try being a cheerleader for a football team we love to see you gals cheer while we play

Answer 2

hmm. ive had the same problem. mabey finding  another guy that you like to obsesse over lol. well thats what happened in my case and now im obsessed with another guy. the only other thing to do would be to just try being friends. sometimes when you get to know someone you start to not like them in that way mabey because of their personality. good luck!

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Answer 3

Dont be a homewrecker. Go out try to find other guys that interest you. Dont sit around waiting for him and his girlfriend to break up that'll only be worse. Go out with ur girls and just leave him alone

Answer 4

chuck the d**n thing out the window

Answer 5

no use crushing over someone who, for one has a girlfriend currently, two doesn't like you like that, so just forget him and seek new available crushes. besides its funner to flirt and pursue a crush that could have a potential future fling, or what not, rather than obsessing over something that isn't going to go anywhere,  

Answer 6

THE ONLY WAY TO GET OVER A MAN IS TO GET UNDER A NEW ONE .....................HEY!

Answer 7

try convincing yourself that he aint worth it! date other guys to forget him!

Answer 8

i totally know what you fell like and it's a lot harder to get over someone than it sounds...

tell yourself it will never happen. whenever you find yourself thinking of him, quickly do something to distract you and tell yourself it will never happen. find someone else to like. try to flirt with other guys, but don't act like a s**t.

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Answer 9

yeah ask his girlfriend how she got so lucky it will p**s her off she will tell him and it will flatter him , and there is always a chance

Answer 10

find someone else to like.  Or try and find things that you don't like about hime and focus on that a little more to help you get over him until you can see him as a friend

Answer 11

- find someone else to be infatuated with

- focus on your ex's bad/gross/freaky traits (...try to find fault in him)

- remember/replay why you two broke up and try to look at the good points of the breakup

-realize that if he has a new gf, he has moved on, so don't give him attention that he doesn't bother to give to you

Answer 12

the old saying, plenty of fish in the sea, find someone else, get on your facebook and start searching your single friends

Answer 13

start talking to other people