How do I get over my stupid fantasies?

Question

One of my fantasies is that I wish my husband was famous around the chicks and had s*x with most of them (even now that we are married)

I like to see my husband being on demand and wanted by s**y girls...

Answer 1

If you are bothered by the fantasies, then by all means talk to someone about you inability to stop having them despite not wanting to have it.  Do not let a fantasy become an obsession or put your marriage in danger.

Answer 2

It's a fantasy, it's not causing any harm.  You should not worry about it.

Answer 3

Sexual fantasies are a healthy part of a marriage or full time relationship.  Have you considered telling your husband your fantasy.  He may find it exciting as well and even want to role play it with you.  Do not be ashamed of a fantasy, its not hurting anyone and it may well be adding to your s*x life.