How do I get over someone who's taken?

Question

I had a huge crush on this guy at my college. I just found out that he has a girlfriend and I'm embarrassed cuz his friends know I liked him. He joined my club and so we're going to be around each other. I don't want to embarrass myself or blush or anything. What should I do? I know he's completely off limits because he has a girlfriend. I just don't know how to act around him if he knows I like him.

Answer 1

just chill, it's probably gonna be hard trying not to think about it but if there is another boy in the club, try to get to know them, it doesn't have to be bf/gf relationship just do something to keep your mind off of him.

Answer 2

There are other fish in the ocean, you'll find someone who likes you who is not taken.

Just look around for other guys, dont focus on him.

Answer 3

Just treat him like you would a platonic friend and let it go at that. His friends may have told him but so what, thats no big deal. You will find yourself another man, maybe even one of his friends eh?

Answer 4

hey it doesn`t mean you have to ignore him ,he has a girlfriend not a wife so don`t give up ,acked nice and still like him who knows if he might leave the other girl some day and you are available just be his friend for now ,keep him close.

Answer 5

normally difficult to talk straightly to people who u love,esspecially first lover,for me best way is hand writting

tell him your true feeling.do not care about his girl friend,if he is gentle he know how to get through this situation,

love people is not a crime

if it a crime,hinding crime is really bad ideal (go to jail..hihi)

i am a man..my ideal (i am happy if there are some one who really love me)

Answer 6

Jst b urself ...think if he leave his Gf jst for u will u b happy from inside..how if it's vice - versa the next day then...it better to make the things comes ur way rather than compelling other to do for u...Look around u will find no. of guyz looking for ur response.It's better to be loved rather been in love...World is waiting for u nd you are wasting ur precious time by waiting for a guy who's already in a relationship..

Answer 7

Simple basic human nature, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. You will soon forget about the other guy.

Answer 8

Just act natural, or don't even act.  Maybe the best thing to do might be to just tell him and let him know that nothing will ever come of it and that you needed to get some closure on YOUR part.

Answer 9

If you think he really does know... then you simply have to act like a classmate/course mate/club mate/friend.

Maintain a distance that you would for a friend.

Naturally, it isn't always easy to get over a crush, especially when you have to spend a lot of time with that person. Still, if you had a crush on him and are pretty demure, wouldn't you not show it? :)

The way I see it, you can portray this new role sa yourself. :) Just be slightly alert and aware of your actions, and you'll be able to respect his being "off-limits".

Now, if his girlfriend would find out, then that would be another concern. You will have to maintain a distance even wider than that of a friend, because the girlfriend might see your actions as something hostile against their relationship; to be blunt - a threat.

Again, you can avoid trouble by keeping your distance by being alert and aware of your actions, and you'll be able to respect his being "off-limits". _Ball's in your court. :) Good luck!