How do I get rid of her??

Question

Ok, so I am a buddy to this new kid. We met at orientation. Of course being new and everything she was shy, and quiet but I did everything. I talked to her, tried to bring her into a good conversation and she cuts it short. She insulted a few kids when she didn't even know them. She is fussy, and when I introduced her to my friends and when they tried talking to her, she wouldn't even try to carry on the conversation. And she just stands around awkwardly and I feel like I can't talk to any of my friends. It's mean to ditch your buddy, cause they're new but then I just don't connect or click with her. She's hasn't made any other friends apart from me yet. HELPPPP!!!!!!!!!!! How do I tell her to find her own friends? Cause her parents came and embarrased themselves and her in front of my friends and she didn't know it. My friends don't really like her that much either.

Answer 1

Sounds like this one has an attitude like she is better than everyone else and that it is a chore to be nice.  Maybe you just need to nip this in the butt.  Tell her just what I said.  Ask her what is her deal?  It doesnt matter if your friends like her it is if you like her and if you dont than take action like I said.  Maybe she needs confronting and she will change.

Answer 2

Slowly pull away (like not answering her calls, saying you're unavailable to hang out, etc) until you lose all contact.  Yeah it's a ***** move but sometimes it has to be done.

Answer 3

Just talk to her through this. Tell her your problems and etc., you know. Just be honest with her.

Answer 4

Do not be rude. But if she is putting peopkle down then say hey thats rude. Slowly start acting your self and do not invite her everytime!!!! Only answer your phone a little less. Tell her your busy doing something. Do not e-mail her back as quick. When school starts she will hook up with some others in her classes and slowly weed away. at that point do not call back!!!!

Answer 5

Just be honest in a nice way.  Tell her you just don't click, that your personalities don't mesh.

If you can't bring yourself to tell her, than strongly hint.  

If she doesn't take the hint, then avoid her until she gets the hint. People make and lose friends all the time.  You should always be courteousto people but you don't have to be everyone's good friend.  I used to always befriend odd people, but then I got stuck with the socially abnormal friends and it is not worth the headache.  I'm guessing you just started college? (you mentioned orientation).  You're all adults now, and like I said, it's good to be nice, but everyone has to make their own way.