My boyfriend is diabetic and suffers from anxiety and depression because of this. He doesn't like going out, scared that he will go hypo (collapse) in public, and he's never happy the way he was a few years ago. He has been diabetic since he was 11, but it is only recently that the depression has crept in.
I read that you should try to encourage people to come out for walks and talk and spend time together, which I try to do but he just wants to be on his own all the time - when he's not working it seems like all he does is play on the computer.
I won't go into all the symptoms of his depression but it makes me feel unwanted and unloved, and everything I do to try and help just gets thrown back in my face. I hate seeing him like this and have begged him to talk to a psychiatrist but he says he can't talk about it to anyone.
I don't know what to do - how do I get him to help himself and spend time with me the way we used to?
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