How do I get this little kid to stop?

Question

So I was babysitting this little kid with my boyfriend and the kid is maybe 7 or 8 years old so he "accidentally" elbows me in my chest when I was making him dinner. He was like "OMG, did you see that? I touched her boob and she didn't even notice" to my boyfriend. How do I let this little kid know it is NOT appropriate to go up touching girls b***s? My boyfriend just put his arm around my shoulder, rested his hands over my right breast, and laughed like he was encouraging the little kid.

What do I say to him? I don't want him to tell his mom "OMG, so I touched Catherine's b***s today!"

Answer 1

smack teh little fuc....jk break up with your boyfriend or warn him and tell him to that little son of a.... trust me he is just tring to act cool in front of this guy that is older than him i have experience but with three 9 year old boys with my boy friend so i had to baby sit 4 "little babies" at the same time

Answer 2

just say it is not polite to do that and if you do it again i will have to tell your mom  the same thing with my  ittle bro when he "tickles" you he sticks his hand down your bra he did it to one of my friends it was kind of funny then again he was only 2 now he is 3 and has stoped.......thank god and good luck

Answer 3

just let the little kid touch them all day and he will soon get bored.

Answer 4

Slap your boyfriend and tell the little guy that it is NOT okay to touch a girl like that. If he goes blabbing to his mom, just tell her what happened. Little boys do awkward things. His mother should understand and will probably talk to him about it.

As long as you let him know what he is doing is wrong and notify his mother, you're doing all you can really do.

Answer 5

the same thing happened to me only the encouraging kid was my 6 year old brother and the breast toucher was my moms 26 year old boyfriend.

Answer 6

say your gonna sue his *** for sexual harassment

Answer 7

hahahaha. oh d**n that was funny as h**l. just tell him it ain't appropriate and tell his parents. if he is that young they won't care and will just talk to them. and if you tell them don't use the word b***s, parents find it kinda immature

Answer 8

First and foremost, chew out your boyfriend. He should know better than to treat you like that, especially in front of an impressionable child. Tell him to grow up, although at this point I'm guessing it won't do much good.

Talk to the boys mother. Ask her what SHE wants you to do in that sort of situation. She may want you to punish him by taking away TV or video games while you're babysitting. That way, he knows that NO ONE approves of his behavior, and that it isn't tolerated.

Answer 9

Just talk to his mom, she should know if her son is doing things he shouldn't. Also tell your boyfriend that it's not alright to encourage bad behavior in little kids, and that he needs to help you, and have your back in troubling situations, not make them worse.

Best of Luck!

~Meg

Answer 10

If he says it and you are around, turn to him, and say (as sternly as possible), "Yes he did, and I did NOT appreciate it! He was very rude and maybe I won't be able to babysit anymore because he thinks it's ok to do stuff like that."

Answer 11

Your boyfriend is a jerk and a sexist p#g. He acted badly and you think you can tell that little boy not to do the same.