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How do I get through to him?

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I like this guy a lot, and I'm 98% sure he likes me back. He just recently got out of a rough relationship. The girl he broke up with is kind of my friend, and after the breakup she started dating his best friend (who is also my best friend). This is all kind of confusing, sorry. They're both kind of over it, even though he's still really mad at her. I have a couple options to get my message through to him. I could tell Matt (our best friend, who is dating his ex) that I like him, and then have matt nudge him in the right direction. OR I could just tell him.... Normally, I'm not shy, at all. I think I'm just being cowardly. OH, and he accidently did this REALLY mean thing to me recently. You see, I keep expecting him to tell me he like me, just blurt it out already. Here was our aim convo:

Your rMommmmmm (7:55:34 PM): yo

Your rMommmmmm (7:55:44 PM): im going to penale

Twiggy90912 (7:55:51 PM): hey

Twiggy90912 (7:55:55 PM): penale?

Your rMommmmmm (7:55:59 PM): lenape

Your rMommmmmm (7:56:10 PM): the music school is 4 hours away

Twiggy90912 (7:56:21 PM): sick!

Twiggy90912 (7:56:30 PM): you'll probably have band with matt and I

Twiggy90912 (7:56:58 PM): hows the flute coming?

Your rMommmmmm (8:35:59 PM): andie

Twiggy90912 (8:36:07 PM): yep?

Your rMommmmmm (8:36:11 PM): ignore these four words

1. He IGNORES my question with a very long pause, and then types my name in a one-word message.

2. He waits for me to respond, to make sure I'm paying attention.

3. He pauses and then says "ignore these four words"

4. Let's be clear. He did NOT say "ignore these NEXT four words"

5. I expected him to say something meaningfull.

Your rMommmmmm (8:36:25 PM): get it?

Your rMommmmmm (8:36:27 PM): haha

Twiggy90912 (8:36:32 PM): lol

Twiggy90912 (8:36:43 PM): i got the message, but it was too late...

Twiggy90912 (8:36:44 PM): lmao

Your rMommmmmm (8:36:58 PM): lmao

Twiggy90912 (8:37:32 PM): so was it just the commute, or did private school really suck?

Your rMommmmmm (8:37:45 PM): commute?

Your rMommmmmm (8:38:00 PM): its up near pittsburg if that answers your question

Your rMommmmmm (8:38:24 PM): brb

Twiggy90912 (8:38:29 PM): lol, your commute is the time it takes to get to your work, or school

Twiggy90912 (8:38:29 PM): k

Your rMommmmmm (9:00:23 PM): bak

Twiggy90912 (9:00:30 PM): hey

Twiggy90912 (9:01:12 PM): my question before was, was private school really that bad? i mean, lenape has cockroaches....

Your rMommmmmm (9:01:27 PM): o no

Your rMommmmmm (9:01:43 PM): i would only get 4 hours of sleep a day

Your rMommmmmm (9:01:52 PM): and the school is near pittsburg

Twiggy90912 (9:02:01 PM): double ouch

Twiggy90912 (9:02:13 PM): pittsburg is my least favorite large city so far

Your rMommmmmm (9:02:24 PM): hahaha

Twiggy90912 (9:02:43 PM): compared to boston, at least

Twiggy90912 (9:03:29 PM): hey, man

Twiggy90912 (9:03:50 PM): i gotta head out my dad is starting a movie and i'd better go watch it with him

Your rMommmmmm (9:04:08 PM): i like to reminisce with people i dont know

Your rMommmmmm (9:04:10 PM): k

Twiggy90912 (9:04:24 PM): otherwise he'll start a "you'll wish you'd spent more time with me when I'm gone" speech

Twiggy90912 (9:04:31 PM): ttyl

Your rMommmmmm (9:04:39 PM): k

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  1. wow....anyone with the name Your rMommmmmm has to be a jackass...hahaha just my opinion, but he's so random and odd...i know random people, and they're funny, but he's def. not...kind of annoying actually....but just keep talking with him, have great communication to clear up any confusion either of you might have.so you want to talk seriously to him, and if he feels the same, then yay! but if not, then you know you didn't waste your time.


  2. i dont understand all that but to your question, just tell him what have you got to lose right?!

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