I'd rather not invite my dad to my baby shower, but he INSISTS that I include him. My parents have been divorced for 23 years and my dad makes my mom very uncomfortable. He has to be the center of attention and always tries to upstage my mom. I really want my mom to attend and I would prefer the shower to be ladies only anyway, but my dad will throw a fit if he's not invited. He does not like to be left out of things and tends to manipulate me so he can get his way. I tried explaining to him that I'd like to follow the "ladies only" tradition, but he told me I'm not being fair and that I'm trying to punish him. I'm concerned that he will encourage my stepmom (his wife) not to attend, or that he may show up uninvited, which is something he would do. Any advice on how I can handle this in the most mature and gracious way? Thanks!
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