How do I help a girl over a breakup?

Question

A really close friend(a girl) of mine was recently dumped by her heartless boyfriend of 2 years, after promising so much and even taking her virginity. She feels betrayed and everything, to finally put her trust in a boy and have that all broken. What can I do to ease her pain?

Answer 1

Make her life colourfull and fruitfull .  

Answer 2

Let her know your their for her. Give her a mans advice, give her your point of view, it always helps me better understand what hes thinking. Do something with her to help her get her mind off of him. It's going to be hard but try and get her to go out. Try not to let her drag herself down. Let her know she can do way better and she doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Basically make her realize how much of a dirt bag he is. And make her see how special she is so she doesn't go back to him.

Answer 3

Just be her friend.  Listen to everything she has to say and then take her out to get her mind off of him.  Take her bowling or to the driving range to take out her frustrations.  But don't let her lock herself in her house and cry all the time!  Remind her that she is beautiful and this isn't her fault.  Also realize that she may not want to hang out with your right now because you are a guy and she feels hurt by them!