How do I help my 4 year old daughter adapt to her father dating?

Question

ok well I have a 4 year old daughter and a 17 month old.My daughter Isebella who is 4 father is dating again.I am a teen mom and my daughter seems to hate it so much and I want to know is their anything I can do?My boyfriend and I used to live together but she cant get over the fact that her father is kissing someone else other than mommy.She does the most horrible things to the girl is there anything I can do

Answer 1

Perhaps explain to her whats going on? I really dont know, but I hope you get through it. My friend had a similar problem when he was a kid, but he grew out of it.

Answer 2

okay...... umm... well from my expercises i say tell her that her dad and you are not together, and she could have two mommys, and more people are more people for her to have as friends... i suggest letting Isabella get use to your exs girlfriends before he brings them over as his "girlfriend girlfriend" so her daddys girlfriend will be her friend.

Answer 3

try to talk to him and tell him that it bothers your daughter. and ask him not to bring his new gf around until he is sure they can have a long relationship. and talk to your daughter and tell her that u and daddy aren;t together anymore, but he still loves you(your daughter) and that you(you) and him will still be friends