How do I keep myself from feeling so bad about this?

Question

How do I keep myself from feeling so bad about this?

This is absolutely ridiculous, and I am ending it here on Y!A...

My friend is obsessed with HP. I am obsessed with Twilight. Now there's some kind of war going on between us about the books...

I walked up to her one day and said "Hey, if you like HP so much, why don't you read Twilight?" and she said okay. Then it was summer break and we came back to school and she said, "I don't know if I really like Twilight." and I asked her why not. She said she read part of it and that Bella and Edward were too perfect, or something like that. A couple of days l8r, my friend said, "I hate Twilight, it's too predictable." I was half-way---I agreed but then disagreed, but then let it go. The next day, at lunch she siad "I think I've made my mind-I'm going to read Twilight" I was happy, and I suggested that maybe she's like Jacob better than Edward, and she was enthusiastic. About a week later she's like "OMG I HATE Twilight!" WTF???

And now she's saying it all the time and I can only take it for so long. It's getting on my nerves. Everytime she says it I feel guilty, like I did something wrong. It's HER Opinion! I don't understand why I feel like this...I want it to end...how do I end this?

Answer 1

And here I am worrying about how to cure this disease I have... knowing there are more pressing matters like this really puts things into perspective...

Answer 2

Well if you wouldnt do that to her about HP then you have some reason to be at least annoyed about it. She doesnt have to keep talking about it at all. I think the best way to handle it is tell her you are getting tired of it and to lay off. Also, find some sort of online group that are fans of twilight and talk about how much you love it and it will make you feel better knowing that there are so many other people that love Twilight and youll have people to tell your favorite parts and characters and everything. I actually like it alot and am about to let a friend borrow it. I doubt she will like it but thats okay. I plan on going to see the movie all by myself and then ill come home and get online and talk about how i felt about it to other people that watched and felt the same way! Friends are great but they dont always like the same things..thats why you find "internet friends" that you can talk to about your interests and hobbies, as long as you dont try and meet up with them haha. Anyways, try that out.  Hopefully she will understand and hush about it and you can talk about it with other people!

Answer 3

if that is all you have to be upset about then you are one lucky person. IGNORE HER FOREVER! i hated the book too!

Answer 4

Just ignore it, everybody has different tastes so if she doesn't like that book..oh well. And if it bothers you that much you should tell her to please keep her comments to herself. If she has nothing nice to say about it she shouldn't say it.  

Answer 5

umm this really makes no sense and is really pointless!:]

Answer 6

what is hp?