How do I know for sure if I am shy or outgoing?

Question

Some of my friends say I'm outgoing. Others say I'm more on the shy side.

How do I know for sure?

Answer 1

You can take a free online psychological test like the MBTI to discover if you're introverted or extraverted.  Some people tend to be shy around a large group of people, but very outgoing around a close group of friends, and vice versa.  It might also be that you're outgoing around members of the same s*x because you have a subconscious attraction to them and wish to gain their affections.

Answer 2

You know what you are...

BOTH!

as am i.

When i'm with my friends, i'm very outgoing, and when i'm with new people, i'm very uncomfortable and shy.  Its ok to be both.  Its part of who you are! :D

Answer 3

Friends can't honestly answer that question.

The question is how do you behave around strangers?

Answer 4

YOu're different around diffeent people, that's too be expected!