How do I know if I was raped/drugged?

Question

I am a male. I was 16 at the time. I used to hang around with a crazy crowd, which included a g*y drug dealer. He was older, but I made it a habit to avoid being around him when I could. One night a friend and I went to his house to smoke up. My friend left for a few minutes, and while he was gone I had drank some iced tea. I felt weird, and think I might have been out of it for a minute or two. I checked my watch to see, but I had no signs of being raped or touched about my person. Later on, about a month later, I was at another friends house that he showed up at to do business. I was sleeping, but heard them talking in the next room. Something about "he won't remember a thing, as I've done this before". I went out to see what was up(smoked up), and they acted business as usual. I didn't go back to sleep until he left, and even forced myself to stay up for a few hours more. I woke up 4 hours later with my pants down. However, my friends sister was leaning next to me. She quickly pulled my pants up and left the room.????? What the h**l is up with this? I can't figure it out, but the guy gave me the creeps. I think he may have tried something on both occasions, but again I showed no signs of abuse and felt nothing unusual. I have not spoken to any of my friends about this. I know that he used to sleep with some guys I knew here and there. Please help, as this is very serious, and has been bothering me for years.

Answer 1

i don't know if you'll ever know.... but you need to find new "friends"

Answer 2

Ask your friend's sister what happened. You could threaten her with going to the police and see if she opens up. You could try a hypnotist to see if you can remember anything. And stay away from such people in the future.

Answer 3

go with your gut ,and start teeing off on him just start slapping him to sleep .he probley did, that sick f**k ,a dought he pushed it in you but he probley sucked you down while you were asleep ,id say take you and a couple of you boys call him up to buy some dope , and say you want a lot ,have him come to your house and g*y bash him and take his dope ,,,,,,,,man dont ever second guess your self.....and dont think down on your self ,,,,,,,,i used to know a lot of g*y guys that did that stuff ,and if they had the chance they would do it again  

Answer 4

if your *** hurts, and you don't remember being constipated or drunk, you were raped.