How do I know if Im too needy?

Question

Ive been single for all 21 years of my life. I get bored easily so I am always changing guys. 8 weeks ago I met this guy and Im starting to completely fall for him. I just moved back to school which is 5 hrs from home so it is difficult to see him. Its a week and he hasnt called or texted me. Should I be worried or am I being needy? Also hes had relationship problems in the past so I dont want to push him to much but I want him to show me a little more attention. How do I do this without coming of as annoying and needy? Thanks

Answer 1

if he hasn't call in a week it's still ok to check on him later 2 months or more forget it.

Answer 2

You have every right to feel "needy" when you're in love because he's probably on your mind often. He hasn't called a week, I would be worried too if I were you. I think being too needy or too attached is when a person constantly needs the other's attention 24/7 or so.

But yeah, just leave him a message and ask him to give you a call back because you haven't heard from him for awhile.

Answer 3

Just be in honest (in all your relationships).  Come straight out and ask him.  Say "Hey, I haven't heard from you and I'm wondering if you're ok and if you'd like to continue seeing me or just be friends?  Let me know and I hope all is well."  And then see how he responds.  If you get no response, I'd let it go and stop contacting him.  And also be prepared for him to respond with a "just friends" text - but at least you'll know then.

Answer 4

Try calling him, when you get him on the phone, tell him its really hard being away from him.  Once he shows you a little attention, make sure he understands how much it means to you.  If you call a few times and don't get an answer, don't keep calling.

Answer 5

You need to have confidence in yourself and your place here on this earth.  Trust me ... when the right guy finds you he WON'T make you wonder whether he likes you or not.

The guys that need prodding are the guys that end up in really, really messy divorces.

Meanwhile ... find yourself, your life, your good friends and your gifts.  When you've found all those things your guy will find you!