He constantly is saying he loves me, all the time, but he always mentions wanting to sleep with me too. He said he wants to get married, have kids, he's easygoing, we don't fight or anything, the main issue is that he constantly seems never to trust me, always asking if I really love him or if I'm going out with other guys blah blah. It kind of hurts me when he says those things but he always insists that he's just looking out for me. I don't know, I probably wouldn't feel there was a problem with this relationship at all if he wasn't always feeling jealous of other guys and seeming constantly like he's under self-esteemed. I don't know, my main feeling of being afraid is if I change, if he'd still like me, because he's always commenting on how pretty I am blah blah (although I don't think that's the case at all)....like how thin I am, how "white" I am, I mean what if I became fat or tan (God forbid! *sarcasm*) or whatever, what do you guys think? Am I wrong to be suspicious or whatever? Is he wrong? Does this even seem like an okay relationship? Am I listening to too many people who don't know what they're talking about and being silly over nothing?
I don't know, it just seems like....since we come from such 2 different backgrounds that we could get along as friends maybe but to get married? I mean I'm arab where it's common to get married without a whole lot of dating and at a young age, but it just seems like maybe I need someone from my own kind of environment, like for instance - his family isn't as well off as mine (not that I care at all, I always give him things just out of wanting to randomly), I grew up in the states, I speak english as my first language, he lived a poorer life obviously, doesn't speak english (but we talk in arabic), sometimes I feel like I need someone who could help me more....he's 23 and I'm 19 but it's like he relies on me for things, asks me to do the calls, asks me to visit, maybe he doesn't want to put effort into this relationship? or he truly can't? And then if I bring up any of these things he says his family isn't as well off and gets kind of mad..iono does anyone have an opinion? sorry this was long.
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