I have been married to my husband for 9 years, since I was 16, and we have 5 young children. I still am very much in love with him, but our relationship has been in turmoil for sometime. My husband is constantly calling me filthy names and screaming over the littlest things. He makes me feel like I am stupid and can't do anything right. I have a fear of driving, but I am going to school full-time and desperately want to learn how to drive, but he doesn't want me too. He says that we don't have the money and our insurance would go up to much. The other big thing we fight about is cleaning the house. My house is messy, but I do what I can while chasing after 5 kids and 6 pets all day. It is never enough!!!! My husband says that our children should stay in there rooms unless they are cleaning.He says that if the house was spotless we wouldn't ever fight. I just can't live this way forever. Should I fight for my marriage, or throw in the towel? My husband does have a lot of good traits. He can be very loving, he is responsible, and he is a good dad. Oh yeah, we have a terrible s*x life.
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