How do I know wether my girlfriend is being honest about being with me for the rest of her life.?

Question

How can I tell if she really wants to marry me, or really be with me? Could she be saying that cause that's what I want to hear? Could she maybe be cheating on me?

Answer 1

Why did you ask that question?You are the only person who knows how much she loves you.If you keep on loving her and caring about her, she will love you forever and will never cheat on you.

Answer 2

first of all how long you two been together? but i would just stick with her and if it works out then it does. everything happens for a reason.

Answer 3

To promise someone that you will be there for the rest of your life is a little bit dramatic. Why do you need such strong language with regard to commitment before you trust a potential wife. You should know without a doubt in your soul if you want to marry the other partner and build a life with them. Why are you asking if she is cheating on you? Have you had any reason to suspect this in the past?(actual facts) If you have to be convinced to get married by your girlfriend then I believe your not ready for marriage at the present time. Could your asking the question about her commitment to you just be a convenient excuse not to marry her? Try and be more truthful with your self about your real feeling on the subject of marriage. Good Luck!

Answer 4

You have to trust her more. I've only been with my boyfriend for four months but i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him. Most girl's don't joke about something like that. Most likely she's not saying it because that's what you would like to hear, she probably was nervous the first time she told you that wondering how you would respond. Don't automatically think she's cheating. That will cause you to call her more, and become much more clingy and i'm sure that will just push her away. Just trust her, and follow your heart.

Answer 5

I dont know dude, if your asking us, she has obvously done somthing to make you not belive her in some way shape or form, so look at your relationship closley and youl see the answer for yourself

Answer 6

well it looks like you have some trust issues

i think that your the one that doesn't want to be with her or else you wouldn't be asking this question

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

i need help

Answer 7

You could ask her to marry you this coming Christmas and then you will know. Or, you can trust her for who she is for you no matter what happens. Or you can just not ask her such an unanswerable question.

Answer 8

When does she tell you & does she sound sincere when she says it?

And besides, a relationship won't work without trust-now matter how much you love each other.  

Answer 9

i recently just got engaged and believe me when a girl says that she wants to be with you for the rest of her life she means it. you have to stop thinking that she is cheating on you and stop worrying. negativity in a relationship is not a good aspect of a relationship. if she is giving you a reason to believe that she is cheating on you that is one thing but if you are simply saying it because you are scared, don't. i promise that is the worst thing that you could be doing.

good luck with your girl. i hope you end up happy

Answer 10

98% of girls i know wouldnt

EVER

say something like that without meaning it

unlesss you have aLOT of money

but i truely dont think so