How do I know when I'm having an o****m?

Question

I know this may seem kinda weird, but I don't really know when I'm "cumming" or having an o****m. The only thing that I know I do when I'm having good s*x is my finger tips tingle and afterwards when I think about what had happen between us i git chills an a weird feeling in my stomach. So how would I be able to tell when I'm having an o****m next time? Can someone please tell me?

Answer 1

If you had to ask you haven't experienced one.

Answer 2

My legs start shaking inside, my fingers start to move all on their own.

I feel like I'm on a roller coaster in my v****a.

THEN BOOM!!!

Answer 3

It is usually much harder for a woman to have an o****m during s*x with a partner. I would suggest teaching yourself to have an o****m first. If you can't o****m alone, you are very unlikely to have an o****m during s*x with a partner.

o****m is the peak of sexual arousal. It is the goal and reward for a process that leads to great pleasure. The journey to o****m requires sexual arousal, combined with greater and greater stimulation of your genitals, until the body reaches sexual peak, or o****m. The arousal feels like an irritating itch and yet feels it feels very nice at the same time. As the stimulation continues, the itch gets stronger, but so do the nice feelings. The o****m itself is like the nicest most powerful shiver and the nicest most powerful sneeze, and the nicest most powerful body stretch all happening at once. An o****m feels like this...only MUCH better! The o****m relieves the itch you've been feeling build and build.

As you become more and more aroused, more and more blood goes to your genitals and stays there. The blood accumulation and arousal both build together. At the point of o****m, this blood is finally released from its constricted area, and rushes all over the body.

Your pleasure center can move, and when the pleasure center moves, you must follow it or increase the pressure. If you don’t change your stimulation as your arousal changes, the feeling will weaken and you lose interest.

Some women achieve o****m by crossing their legs and squeezing their legs and thighs together. Some women put a soft pillow under their genitals, and gently ride their way to ecstasy. Some use the water faucet in the bathtub.

RELAX, and TAKE your time. When you are alone with plenty of time on your hands, slip on your silkiest, most comfy panties, sheet, blanket, nightgown, pajamas, or pantyhose and get comfortable. Gently tap, touch, or stroke the garment covering your genitals. The magic spot is called your clitoris, and it resides above the little hole where your pee comes out. It is covered by a little "hood" of skin. I suggest a garment covering the clitoris, because touching it directly might feel too sensitive.

Just explore and RELAX. Take your time, and don't worry if you don't have an o****m the first few times. You don't need to be so goal oriented. Just explore yourself, tenderly and gently.

If an area does not feel especially "nice", move your hand a little. Experiment, and when something feels good, keep rubbing. As the feeling builds, increase the pressure and speed of your hand. As long as it feels good, keep going. You need to be consistent and stick with it. If the pleasure starts to feel better and better, hang in there and keep going. You’re getting really close.

When an o****m approaches, your breathing will get heavier. Some have compared the approach to o****m as being like the approach to a sneeze. You stop in your tracks, and an overwhelming feeling comes over you...something is going to happen! A feeling of almost...almost...almost will begin. You may not know what the feeling is, because you have never felt this way. But if it feels good, keep going.

You will probably get sweatier than you ever have. You may feel like you are going to pop or explode, because the feelings are so overwhelming. Be brave and push on.

As the journey continues, the feeling continues to build: almost...Almost...ALmost... ALMOst ...ALLLMOSSST! And then it happens. You go over the edge and have your wonderful o****m. You may feel a clamping. You may feel an explosion. You may feel your skin flush. Your toes may curl. You might grunt. You might moan. You might holler. You might whine like a puppy. You might hold your breath and be absolutely silent. You might lift and arch your back off of the bed or the chair. You are feeling something that you have never felt before. Your body and genitals will contract, and that almost unbearable itching pressure in your body will RELEEEEEASE, like the biggest sneeze/body stretch/shiver ever. With the release will come tremendously good feelings, a warm and powerful WAVE, starting in your genitals and radiating throughout your body. That's an o****m. If you feel worn out or sleepy, close your eyes and enjoy the afterglow. Sleep if you feel like it.

Good Luck! : )

Answer 4

Oh wow, you will just know!

Answer 5

when it feels really good.

Answer 6

you would know,when you climax your body releases fluid and you shut down,it feels like a big release and your whole body feels relaxed and tingly

Answer 7

whenever i get one..i get really light headed..i think its different for everyone...i'd say when you get that weird feeling you're having one!

Answer 8

some people don't have o****m's but when u do u will so no cause it feels so good u can usually feel down there and u can tell

Answer 9

U WILL SCREA, IN HOLLAWER VERY LOUD AND MIGHT WANT 2 GRAB THING LOL.

Answer 10

A few seconds of intense pleasure, more than you would feel in the normal stages of s*x. You’ll probably get loads of people saying this, but you’ll know once you’ve had one! So if you’re not sure, you probably haven’t.

Answer 11

You'll shoot p***s pudding all over the place

Answer 12

well everytime i o****m my fingers and toes get tingly or kinda numb. I get this wierd feeling but a good feeling and right after orgasming i really have to pee. Thats how I know.