How do I know when I ejaculate?

Question

I'm sixteen years of age and I was wondering how I know when I ejaculate. I here kids saying "blowing a load" and such but I don't make a huge mess. Should I be concerned if I don't "blow a huge load"?

Answer 1

Don't worry about it at all.....you are normal....Good Luck.

Answer 2

if you have s***n coming out of your p***s then you are ejaculating

some boys do not shoot lots of s***n and often boys don;t shoot it very far

the fact that s***n comes out means everything is fine

Answer 3

If you are concerned about this, perhaps you are not drinking enough water every day.  Try increasing your intake of liquids somewhat to see if this causes a greater amount of ejaculate.  Also, masturbating very often will result in smaller loads.  Try holding off for a few days, then see if you get a larger result.

But bear in mind that there is a great difference among men in how much they ejaculate and the amount normally does not make much of a difference in how good it feels when you have a climax.

As a guideline, it could be anywhere from 1/2 a teaspoon to 1/4 cup.  As you get a bit older it should increase.  But if your ejaculate is only one or two drops, then you should see a doctor (I know it's difficult to talk about this with an adult at your age) -- s***w up your courage and tell your Dad you need to see a Doctor about this (or talk to another adult whom you trust and who will be non-judgmental).

If you don't feel comfortable telling someone you are masturbating, keep in mind all guys have 'wet dreams' and they should result in the same amount of ejaculate as doing a 'solo s*x act'.  You can always say you have 'wet dreams' that don't cause much emission and you want to know if you are normal or not -- since you might want to have kids one day.

No one can criticize you for having a 'wet dream', since guys have no control over when this happens.

Answer 4

You'll get a memo.

Seriously though everyone matures at different times.

Answer 5

When these kids say they were blowing a big load they were wearing special glasses that magnify it all:a normal load is not more then a teaspoon full:so do not get fooled by the "full of it"stories.

Guess you are just normal.

Do not worry.

Space

Answer 6

how do you know when you ejaculate? you'll feel it and see it..

Answer 7

When your eyes roll back in the your head and your toes curl and when you dont care about anything else

Answer 8

dont worry about it, your only sixteen and usually they say blowing a load to brag. when really they are probably just the same as you.