How do I learn to better make sense of tough situations?

Question

I went through a really tough sitch recently and am now confused. I don't know who's lying, who's telling the truth or what to think about the "signals" I've been getting. I can't ask the people involved because we donm't keep in contact anymore and I don't know whether to believe them anyway.

It's extremely hard to let go and just forget about it all; I feel the need to try and figure out what really happened. How can I do that? When you go thru something confusing, how do *you* figure out what to believe?

Answer 1

i pray and take time just for me.  this helps clear my mind.  Or you could try heavy exercising.  That helps me too.

Answer 2

number 1 dont rely on god

number 2 if god was around he wouldnt let horrible things happen

number 3 u cant trust no 1

number 4  life is S$^#@

number 5 no one can help you people are all different we cant tell who liars are and who are not i mean i told truth every word and every 1 thought i was lying  

Answer 3

Google a short piece called Desiderata. All the answers to the issues you have raised are in it. Best wishes. UK

Answer 4

This helps me. God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Sometimes in life, you find you must simply move on and take the happenings, good or bad as a lesson learned. We are put on this earth to learn and grow. Good luck. My prayers are with you.

Answer 5

Trust that all will work out for the better even if it don't seem that way at the moment.

Trust god.

Learn from the experience.

What don't kill you only makes you stronger.

No one has all the answers. Just live in the moment.