How do I let her know that i dont want to be her friend?????

Question

Theres a girl in my class who follows me everywhere,calls me constantly, and texts me constantly, she considers us best friends

shes also kind of messed up

she copies me(with everything)

and obsesses over celebrities

I dont want to be her friend but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings

the last time someone told her that they didnt want to be her friend she said that she woul mess her up and talk about her behind her back

she also lies and steals and thats not the kind of person that i want to be hanging around with

Answer 1

find her a person or clique that matches her? im actually not that sure sorry, but maybe you should just tell her the truth maybe she will change? or maybe you should ignore her.. i think truth is the best thing alothough it might hurt her.. your doing good if you tell her or you'll be living off a friendship that never really existed in your mind.. it was only in her imagination..

Answer 2

You said it right there at the end of your question. Tell her that you don't like to associate with people who lie and steal so you'd appreciate it if she stop contacting you. If you tell her, that should be enough. There's no need to tell everyone you know about her, then she's got something to come back to you and confront. I think you should be able to block her calls and texts, etc.

Answer 3

Tell your teacher or guidance councilor (i know this sounds really lame and adult like but trust me!) They will fix this problem. If that doesn't work Tell the Principal.  Adults seem lame but  they are there to help you!!  

Answer 4

become busy then fade her out

Answer 5

stop texting her back all the time. don't answer all the calls. start hanging out with someone else. or try to get her to hang out with someone else.. invite a group of friends over and try to get her hooked to someone else.

Answer 6

punch her? if you're not bigger and stronger than her this may be a bad idea

Answer 7

give it to her straight tell her you don't want to be her friend and don't be gentle. call her weird and if she says that she'll do all those things you said like talking behind your back and "messing" you up then say" wow you must be a total loser for doing that just because you ended a friendship with her. CALL HER NAMES AND MAKE FUN OF HER

Answer 8

Write her a very nice note and tell her that you think you two really don't click well as friends. Tell her you really don't want to hurt her feelings and that you are very sorry. Honesty gets you alot further than just ignoring the situation or trying to make her not like you. Just be honest.  

Answer 9

the poor girl needs your friendship

just tell her to tone it down a little  

Answer 10

Ok let her down gently. tell her at school that u need to talk. then say that she needs to be herself, her own person, that she can't be you bcuz that jobs already taken. Then introduce her to some other people u know but are not friends with. She'll be off your back in no time. Good Luck!

Answer 11

You can't do it without hurting her feelings.

This girl is obviously someone who could mess you up, in many other ways.

Just ignore her, don't be around her, and if she keeps talking to you, don't lead her on.