How do I live with myself when I hate myself and I want to die?

Question

Its not that I'm suicidal, I have great family and friends I wouldn't hurt for anything. I'm just so sick and tired of myself and the way I continually f***k myself up.

Answer 1

hi Dan, i agree with a couple of the answers here that say they need to get back to their faith. God is really the Only One who can make you feel better about yourself. i know people say all sorts of negative things about God, but He really does want to help you, and really, if everythings as bad as you say,

then what have you got to lose?

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ask Jesus to help you. hand over your life to Him and ask Him to take over the steeringwheell.......well......

Answer 2

Don't lose your self respect and self belief--Try to be honest and sincere to your work and activities----Shake off - all your previous thoughts or predisposition of mind. Awake ,arise and face the eventualities boldly,-Don't be disheartened--be cheerful--have funs and jokes with friends in your day to day  life. Add laughter to your life in any possible way.

Answer 3

Well, write a list of what you've done wrong. Then think about what kind of situation causes that problem, and write what you can do to stop it from happening. Then try to not let it happen again.

Answer 4

go  to the dr , and explain how u feel, otherwise , it will carry on,

and  u will end up even more  depressed than u started with .

he  may say to you about  having counselling,

it  is no good talking  too friends  and family, they already know

your  background,

it is easier  to talk  to someone u do not  know,

and poor it  al out  in one go .

then they can help, suggest methods to help  urself.

i have  done it , and it does work , and helps in so many ways,

it  will do you the world of good.

hope you , sort it out and feel better in urself .  

Answer 5

Please go and see your doctor, you sound depressed - your doc will put you in touch with a counsellor who will show you that you don't constantly mess things up.

Look after yourself and take care - you must be a really good person to have a great family and good friends - there's something you haven't messed up.

Answer 6

What do you mean "continually fk myself up." Add more details please I'd love to try and help you out with my opinions and thoughts.

If you don't want to that's fine. My only word of advice would be to find yourself. Usually done through a religion or believing in something. Im not very religious myself...not anymorebut i haven't been pleased with my self lately and as a result feel like i should strengthen my faith.

Goodlluck man

Answer 7

You have to remember that we live in a hideous sick society that f*cks everyone and everything up.  Try really thinking about all the ways society makes your life difficult and eventually you'll find that you direct that anger and hatred outwards at the b*stards that actually did this to you and you'll find that you don't have such a problem with yourself anymore and that you're doing the best you can do in a society that sh*ts on you whenever it gets the chance.  I'm not bitter much, honest

Answer 8

What do you mean? What do you want that you have not got? Have you got a friend that would answer this question for you honestly.  A bit of constructive criticism might help you see where you go wrong.

Answer 9

I agree....Faith ....me too!! SOON...

GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

Take a deep breath everytime you get annoyed with yourself and just remember that it's not really that bad and there are ways of fixing it.

I swear that smiling at yourself in the mirror is a great way to put yourself in a good mood, usually cause you laugh at yourself because your standing in front of a mirror smiling at yourself.

Try it i swear it works.

Life's not that bad.

If you wanna chat in more depth your more than welcome to get in touch with me. Just as a confidence booster if you need to.