How do I live with the fact that males can't be loved

Question

I'm 15, I'm sure a male can't be loved. For example, my parents say they are proud of me, but they don't love me. They like what I am, but don't love me. But they really love my 12 yo sister.

I used to value friendship, solidarity, compassion. I used to love my parents, even my dad. But I have to change, have to become cold, suffocate feelings. When I'm an adult I'll have to be extremely competitive, forget affection, kill my real me to survive in a world where males can't be loved.

How do I live with such reality?

Answer 1

That's not reality, that's sad and depressing and you were created for love but if you want to think that way and s***w up the rest of your life based on what someone else said go ahead throw away any chance of being loved.  

Answer 2

IT's sad to see that. I also felt as if males were difficult to love - I thought it was the way you guys are bread. Because of the rules of the game. But you are still young - I'm not sure why you are having this problem or whatever.- Just talk to your parents about it. 1 on 1

Answer 3

i'm guessing you listen to emo music right?

Answer 4

congratulations! your an emo!

Answer 5

well its not true that males are not loved... i love my dad and show it... a wife loves her husband.. so its not true that males are loved yes there might be chances where it is not showed.. so dont think so...