How do I make him a guy not like me?

Question

I met this guy at my friend's birthday dinner, and I thought I liked him so I started talking to him a lot... I ended up flirting with him and he likes me now... Well I think he is a total creeper after getting to know him and I don't know what to do. I screwed myself over and I don't know if I should make up an excuse to get him off my back or what... What do I do?

Answer 1

Tell him you aren't interested and just leave it at that, if he continues to harass you just ignore him.

Answer 2

Your sister is right because it does work! I had an issue with a guy that runs a booth at a flea market I go to. Well I made the mistake of talking to him, after that he would follow me around the flea market bugging the h**l out of me, and get this, he went as far as trying to get my daughter to convince me to marry him and he would pay her for it!!!! I started ignoring him every time I went there, in fact completely avoided him at all cost. He gave up and never bugged me again after that. Or you could just tell him to go away or your going to press stalker charges.

Answer 3

Omg, so wierdd.. I am in this situation myself!

You can't control someones feelings, so let him be. But you can show him you arent interested in the same way. If he tries to hug, kiss, touch, etc. Just move away and show him u don't want that. Be nice to him, show him the real you, don't be really mean and ignorant, because it may hurt him more than he really needs to be hurt. It that doesn't work, tell him: hey i want to be friends, but really , i dont like u like a bf, so can we just be friends and leave it at that? :] Hope this helps, GOOD LUCK!

<3,

Sarah

Answer 4

Instead of making up excuses, why not just tell him the truth!  Tell him you don't think this is going to go anywhere and you don't want to waste his time or yours .......... that's all he needs to know.  It hasn't gone far enough that you owe him any more explanation than that.  Then, don't answer his calls, return emails or messages he might leave you.  He'll get the message soon enough

You can never go wrong with the truth!

Answer 5

do what the 1st guy said!! hi people!!

Answer 6

Girl, sometimes in life you have to grow a set. Just tell him straight up "Sorry, I am NOT interested." If you just ignore him he'll only think "well she flirted with me before, she's just shy. She flirted with me before, she's just playing hard to get. She flirted with me BEFORE, she just wants me to chase her." That will NOT get him off your back. But being straight up will and you'll earn his respect while having him respect your boundary.

Answer 7

Whatever you do, don't ignore him! I've been on the receiving end of that, and it was awful. I liked this girl, but as soon as I told her she just completely stopped talking to me, and wouldn't even make eye contact with me (except for when she HAD to, for school and such). Its really awkward even after having moved on. It was confusing and rather painful. I'd much rather she'd of just been straight forward with me and told me that she didn't like me, instead of leaving me to figure it out (which didn't really work too well).

Just tell him that you don't feel the same way about him. Then at least he'll have half a clue what's going on.  

Answer 8

just act odd yourself talk in a accent out of the blue  , go off on a random person if you are out start talking about your need for total commitment  like the giving of ss# or bank accout # tell him you do not have any form of premarital s*x at all none call 8 time in one night leave message between 12am and 6am