How do I make it clear to these 3 not to talk to me?

Question

Ok I used to attend Indiana Avenue Pentecostal Church.There were these 3 females,Lorraine,Monique,and Skyy who used to love to pick on me when I was there and they pick with others.I developed anorexia and bulimia as a result.I changed churches after 2 years and I like it at Apostolic Church of God. I am in the First Service Sanctuary choir.Every year the First and Second Service Sanctuary choir has to sing at my old church.I am bracing myself to sing there for the third time with my choir.Everytime I go, these 3 come off like we're such good friends.We're not.They made my life a nightmare when I was there. Monique is Lorraine's daughter and they would just pretty much tag team me.They would just say some off the wall stuff to me.Lorraine talked about my hair.She got mad because her husband brought a box I made from me.She said never to sell her husband anything like that and said she could find Black Opal products for better price at the dollar store.Her husband chose to buy the box.Complain to him.Monique got jealous because I became friends with her best friend and she popped up pregnant out of wedlock so she began lashing out at me.Its not my fault she got pregnant out of wedlock.She was jealous of me and it showed.She embarassed me in front of my Sunday School class.I mean she would just find little things to nitpick at me about. And well everyone has had problems and issues with Skyy.She's a smart mouthed little thing.

Every year I go, they call themselves smiling at me and saying hello to me and trying to make out like we're friends. I just gave them a look and kept on walking.We are not friends.They made my life a nightmare during my 2 years there.They talked about my hair, talked about my goth style(I was really into goth look back then),and Lorraine complained and made me feel really bad about my artistic talents.She got mad at me because her husband brought a box I made filled with men's products from me.It wasn't really expensive.She broke my spirit and I stopped doing art for 3 months.

WHen I go to sing with my choir at my old church I want to make it clear to Lorraine,Skyy,and Monique not to talk to me.Smiling and grinning in my face and coming off like they like me in front of my new friends at my church.Even the choir members at my new church scratched their heads because they know the abuse I suffered at my old church.I don't want these 3 talking to me.Do I just outright say "Don't talke to me!" when they come to me with that friendly act?Do I say "Go away you losers?" Do I say "Talk to the hand." ?

Answer 1

Well if this is me i would just blank them out and not talk too them because they think there winning and then they might move on are stop a little bit at a time are if they really do get you angry why don't you fight back are join a fighting/anger group so if they do anything you can help yourself .

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Answer 2

I've had this problem. I tried to ignore them, but it didn't work. so then I tried being overly friendly back and smiling and saying, "Yeah, we're the best of buddies"... completely freaked them out. Haven't bothered me since.

Answer 3

"Talk to the hand"?

No, that is lame.

If they bother you again, say, with a calm but serious tone like it's a fact,

"If you continue your childish antics, you're all going to end up in h**l." & with those words, give a solid fierce look and walk away.

Answer 4

Politely ask them not to speak to you and walk away.