How do I make my friend STOP COPPYING ME?!!?!?!?

Question

It started about a year ago.I got a pair of converse with lambs on them.She sees them and the next time i see her she has the exact same pair!!Then i got another pair but they were red.guess what??SHE GETS THE SAME ONES!! I get sims 2 and she's liike "omg i totally have to get this game!!"and she gets like all of the expansion packs also.On her b-day party we went to the galleria and she saw my jacket with buttons on it so while we are there she get friggen buttons like me and puts them on her jacket!!And she also notices that i loooove cheese from fosters home for imaginary friends and she now LOOOVES him too!I had penguin vans and she gets puppy vans!

One time when we were hanging out and i asked her what her favorite color was and she says green.hen i ask her what her LEAST favorite colors are and she said yellow and orange.Then she asked me what my favorite colors are and i tell her orange and yellow(which is the truth).I was happy because my favorite colors are yellow and orange.BUT THE NEXT TIME I SEE HER i ask her the same question and guess what she says.ORANGE AND YELLOW!!!

I loove the beatles and she was listening to my ipod and she gets all intrested into the beatles!!Also i love peace stuff and recycling etc..AND SHE Starts doing all of that stuff TOO!!!

AND THE THING THAT TICKS ME OFF THE MOST IS

on my birthday my mom gave me this ring and she told me that

every time my finger grows we will add a heart to it.my mom has a gold one just like it.AND SHE GETS IT TOO! SHE IS A SPOILED BRAT !! Please help me!!Or Kick her but before i do!

Answer 1

I hate to break it to you but some people never grow out of this.

I had a friend in high school who did this to us.  Now that she is a grown woman she is doing it to her husband.  

Answer 2

Draw back from her. Have you told her what she  does is bothering you?  If you have and she still pretends not to notice (cause who could really not notice that they are changing everything about themselves that much?)

then dont hang out with her so much! she wont be able to imitate you if she cant see you.  

Answer 3

LMAO tell her to get her own style or maybe you should consider it a compliment

or

try a whole different style to she if she copies even though it is rediculous then switch back to yours

Answer 4

Sounds like she has some sort of psychological problem that she cant help but copy people, she probably even thinks about it more than you do.

Answer 5

Wow

did you ever hear the phrase

that imitation is the most sincere form of flattery

how can you be hating on this lovely girl who obviously worships you and thinks you have the best taste and wants to be like you

I be it she knew how mean you were she would stop copying you

just show her this question and I am sure she will never bother you again

Answer 6

I had the same problem,I got some new friends and she grew out of that phase...were not as close as before but were still good friends and she eventually grew into her own style..therfore find new friends for awhile then hang out with her in a few months

Answer 7

Wow, she sounds extremely annoying.

Some people just can't think for themselves... And she may never change.

Answer 8

What u need to do is start copying her reverse psycology.

Answer 9

Tell that your sick of her doing that and that you don't feel good when she does this

Tell her to stick to her own interests .

Answer 10

Hmm, looks like somebody's a poser...

Tell her to be herself in a kind way. Friendship is supposed to be made with two different people not two same people. Do you know what I mean?

Answer 11

just subtly try to tell them a few times and if that doesn't work, then find another of your friends who feels the same and you should plan to start copying them and they should complain about it to the friend who copies you. then your helper friend should say like you do to whatever your name is... then maybe they'll realize. or say stuff alot about how you hate posers.

Answer 12

wow, well i would talk to her bout it, but dont be all rude cuz you might lose her as a friend. but it does sound like shes a bit too obsessed with you lol.  

Answer 13

well i would say that its kinda of a compliment but shes takin it WAY to far

Answer 14

Oh my god that is so annoying!  I know they say immitation is a form of flattery, but that's like mental!  I would be so ticked.  My friend used to do this to me (to a lesser extent).  The thing that made me say something was my husband loves this one cologne I wear, makes him crazy for me, and I told her this, and guess what?  Next time she came to our house she was wearing that same perfume!  I told her to please not wear that perfume when she comes over.  She at least did that, and now she does tend to copy me a bit less.  So just try to bring it up to her next time she tries to buy something that you have just say something like, oh, don't get that one, I wanted mine to be original.  That should be nice but to the point.  If she still doesn't get it then just say straight out that you don't like when people copy you.

Answer 15

I have a friend who did this to ALL my friends. Yes, it's VERY annoying, but soon enough she'll grow out of it, if it's taking too long for her to grow out of this habit try talking to her and if all fails use this idea: Wear something to school thats so weird, (just not TOO weird because YOU dont wanna get laughed at) Then she most likely won't copy it. Answer questions with weird answers, and soon she'll probley never copy you again!

hope it works!

Answer 16

what i do when my friends copy me is just tell them that i am my own person and that if you really want to copy me then be your own person and i also think its rude.i know some people consider it as faltering but i think differently. so try that and maybe shell understand

Answer 17

Move. Just kidding- why not try telling her that she is jeopardizing your friendship and if she continues to do this that you will no longer be her friend? Or you could yell at her in front of everyone to get her to stop. This should be a bit embarrassing to her and should help drive the point home. Finally, tell her to bugger off and get a life. Just don't drive the point home using physical force.

Answer 18

if you guys both have a myspace, you should post a bulletin, a long one, talking about how much you hate how people copy one another and there isn't enough individualism in the world or something. but you should also definitely talk to her about it if the bulletin thing doesn't work. my friend kinda started doing it to me too, but not for a year lol

Answer 19

you can talk to her about it and tell her it gets annoying and that you'd like her to stop

and if she doesn't than you should ditch her .

because she could turn  really obsessed.

Answer 20

Ask her why she does that and then tell her to get a life.

Answer 21

Oh yeah, I hate copycats too. You should tell her face to face that you are disturbed by her copying you. Maybe she is still not conscious of it. Let her know, and see what she says. If she says she is not aware of it, and she does it again, you should tell her off.