How do I mend the awkwardness between my bf and I?

Question

I have been considering a break with my bf of 2 1/2 years because we're

planning on moving in together and I wanna take a step back and make sure we're ready 'cause it's a big step. I haven't been able to go through with it, but ever since I considered it, it's been awkward between us. I'm sure he knows that I was thinking about it. How do I save things from crumbling??

Answer 1

talk to him and tell him how you feel about moving in with him

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Answer 2

the sooner you bring it up the better.  the worst thing you can do is jump into something youre not ready for, or let this tension go on for longer than it has to.  just find a time to sit down with him, and really explain your feelings.  emphasise that you dont want to break up, just take a step back, and ask his feelings too.  for all you know, he could be feeling the same way.  

Answer 3

tell him? but honestly you've been together for 2 1/2 years... you need to take a step somewhere...

Answer 4

Just tell him you are not ready to move in yet, if he loves you he will understand and step back.  

Answer 5

ok wat r u talking about ur boyfriend or ur best friend?

tell him ur starting to second thoughts and help him look for a new place to live or say u want marriag first

Answer 6

Tell him if it's awkward now think how awkward it's gonna be when you move in and you are not ready.  He's gonna push you away.

Marco!

Answer 7

just b honest with him. its the only way to clear the air...

Answer 8

you actually bring it up,

it's called

COMMUNICATION

Answer 9

be honest. tell him ur not ready for that step and u want to spend more time and keep things as they are for the moment.

Answer 10

Have s*x with him and tell him while your having an orgasim or while screaming :D , That what i do :D  

Answer 11

talk to him about it

Answer 12

take a step back don't move in together if you don't want to because then you will be at each others throats about your different opinions  and then you WILL brake up. to save this relationship you shouldn't move in together it'll only hurt your relationship not help it