I will admit that I wasn't exactly a popular kid in high school. I wore some pretty ugly glasses because my parents couldn't afford contacts at that time. So I dealt with taunts and being made fun of for most of my elementary and HS days. I really didn't stay in contact with anyone I knew in high school save for a couple of people.
I keep having this strong desire to reconnect with people I knew from HS, to show them that I have changed significantly, that I have turned my life around and have become a somewhat different person. But it seems that many people really have let go of the people they knew in high school and gone on with their lives, graduated from college, and are married and have kids. I fit into none of these categories. I am not married and don't plan to be for a while, it isn't too important for me to be married at this point in my life.
it keeps on becoming clearer to me as days go by. I knew a kid pretty well since we were in 7th grade. I have been to his house several times, we hung around each other a lot until he graduated, went to school in Washington and got married. Now I only see him when he is in California visiting his parents. I used to call him on major holidays but he would never call me.
I guess what bothers me is when you know people for a while and they claim to be your friends or whatever, but when you graduate or they get married you are no longer in their lives. i guess I should be thankful that I have a couple of good friends but I felt like I should be in the lives of other people who claimed to be my "friends".
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