How do I play Dom to my husband in bed?

Question

My husband likes to be dressed and likes me to dominate him some times. I'm not very good at it and sometimes he ends up having to take over. We don't play really mean just controlling. I used a strap on for the first time the other day on him and it was like I was a fifteen year old virgin who doesn't know what to do lol. Anyone know any websites or have any advice that can help me out? Its hard to find anything about pegging on the internet that you don't have to pay per minute for, of course I may be looking at the wrong places. Oh and for anyone who read my question from yesterday I talked to him and he is looking at the transsexual and BI websites because its the closest thing to girl dom over guy sub that he could find. We had a wonderful talk about everything and it ended with me dressing him and great s*x it was wonderful.

Answer 1

You can get a lot of ideas on alt.com. You'll have to join the group but it's free for limited access to other people. There are tons of stories to read in the magazine section that will give you ideas for any kind of play.

Good luck and have fun, I hope he knows how lucky he is to have you. :)

Dan

Answer 2

The most important thing is planning.

You don't have to have a great big detailed thing, but a rough idea would be nice. That way you can adapt.

Instant Message me and I can tell you all about it if you want.

I'm a g*y submissive male who loves dressing up, so I've been there a few times myself. Domination is about confidence. Submission is about obedience. There are numerous tricks you can use. I've experienced a couple and can recommend them.