I am gonna lose it.
My 4 year old son REFUSES to potty in the toilet. I talk to him, about how important it is for him to potty in the toilet, about how he can't go to 'big boy school' if he potties in his pants, about how all his friends potty in the toilet. At the end of the last conversation, he looked at me straight in the eyes and said 'Mommy, you change my diaper. I'll just potty my pants'. UGH!!!! I want to SCREAM. I've TRIED letting him run without anything on. (HUGE messes.) I've TRIED cotton underwear and a teehirt (and, big messes). I've tried taking away tv (he loves his cartoons), but he doesn't care...he just lays on his bed and plays quietly...then pees all over his bed. I take both him and his brother to the potty like clockwork every 30minutes. My oldest seems to hold it in on purpose some times until about 5minutes later. Then comes to me with a cheesy grin and tells me he's pooped his pants.
This is having adverse effects on his little brother who, until a month ago, was potty training quite nicely. His little brother will be 3 years old in October.
I need them both potty trained now. WHAT DO I DO??
HELP!
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