How do I prove I am the best parent for a child?

Question

My wife and I are in a divorce....She cheated on me with a friend that I was trying to help and allowed him to move in. She then cleaned out all the furniture in the house while I was gone. Then filed a restraining order with a bunch of stories like attempted to choke and stuff like that. She then kept our son away from me for three months. And taught him to refer to her boyfriend as "dada". there is much much much more terrible things that she has done to me. And normally someone should have reason to do these things but she has none. Now, she has used the child as collateral, taught him to call someone else daddy, moved in with her boyfriend and his mom in which neither have a job, kept me from providing for the child. She seems to be showing what her true concerns are. don't you think???

Answer 1

You have to show tangible proof that she is an unfit mother.  Moving in with her boyfriend and his mother is not tangible proof of such.  You have to be able to provide photos of the children's home life, witnesses, etc.  Right now you're coming off as sounding as a "disgruntled" husband out for revenge, no court will grant you custody in that case.