How do I reclaim my MASCULINITY

Question

As I dont stand up for myself enough and speak back to people who try to pick arguments with me, what do I do?I used to stand up for myself all the time but I've turned into a bit of a doormat, I think that it's quite important and a requirement for a person to be able to stand up for himself, it's mandatory!!!

Answer 1

Hi

You just need to stand up for yourself when it matters some people just talk rubbish so ignore those people , if it going to affect you in any way then you need to make you point know.

A good trick is the straw man technique.

For instances let say someone make says something you know is wrong and it will affect you in your work.

then you could pick a point where their wrong and say well what if someone were to say that this point is wrong because , they you go on to make your point . then let the trouble maker argue with this imaginary person that questioned their opinion.

It also about body language , we says so much without even speaking , you need to work on positive body language.

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Answer 2

Grow a pair, or find them at least.

Answer 3

You should start standing up for yourself more.

You can continue ignoring the people who just talk rubbish, but there are times that ignoring just doesn't work...

Answer 4

A little bit at a time.

just do it.

Answer 5

ppl who dont listen why waste time? speak up when it counts to ppl who do care..

Answer 6

One can overdo the 'on the wall' bit. Jump off it and air your views. Be rude sometimes, as it appears that other people have been to you.