How do I reignite a romance?

Question

I dated this very special girl for 8 months and for some reason, I lost interest and we've been separated for over 4 months. She dated someone but lost him. I haven't dated anyone, no interest in anyone. So I have been hanging out with my ex and wondering to try it out again. She confessed how many flaws I had that bugged her and how I don't physically attract her and it bothers her a lot. Also, she mentioned that she's still attracted but, slowly losing attraction. She wants to feel that excited, butterflies in the stomach feeling but she doesn't feel that with me. Is there anyway I can help her feel the butterflies again? Is there hope to rebuild and ultimately strengthen our relationship? I love her with everything I have. Please help me.

Answer 1

try somthing diffrent ..for the better. if u did things or said things last time that made her really happy and truly attracted..then perhaps u can try it out again that way. or u can find out what she likes.. and u can put in effort.. maybe a surprise dinnerdate.. a picnic.. whatever works.

u can also let her know theres more to you now than you did in the past. u need not tell her directly.. dropping hints or showing it through action works. like they say, sometimes, gestures are more powerful than words.