This question is in addition to my other question about how to tell my family about a second adoption...some background on my second birth child's adoption, the adoption was going to be fully open, we had phone #'s of the family and addresses and the last name. However the adoption agency we all used botched the adoption and made both sides very angry at them because they allowed a ton of balls to be dropped. Which was communicated with each other. One of the balls that were dropped by the agency was the payment of the medical bills. By state law when our child is placed for adoption all medical bills are taken care of by the adoptive parents. I was being harassed by bill collectors not wanting to follow state guide lines to not collect from me, after having to go through all the leg work after 1 1/2 (that the agency that had been paid already was suppose to take care of did not do) I had to finally start going straight to the adoptive parent, this with many other issues because of
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