To make a long story short my family and my fiance haven't gotten along since the beginning, me and my fiance and both young and she got pregnant before we got a chance to know each other. We are finally working things out but now the next conflict is my family. I get along great with hers. The latest situation is my family wants to take family pics of "the generations" but they don't want to include boyfriends or girlfriends only wives or husbands. When my mom told me about this i knew it would be a problem because they wanted only me and my son and step son in the pic, I didn't feel right about the idea, not that were just excluding only my girl but anyone that has kids together but isn't married, my mom also wants a separate pic of me, my fiance and kids, and my sister and her boyfriend and my niece, I don't have a problem with that its just the main pic, I feel like why can't everyone who has a family be in the pic? Am I wrong or what is their point of view? This is stressing me out and I don't want to forget about my family but I do have my own family now, My uncle who lives out of state and has an open mind says he would just take the pics, not put my emotions in it and try to look at it as a way to start over with all the tension, I don't agree with the pic though, am I over reacting? Or should I just take this picture? I know it will cause more problems with me and my fiance, and I told her I wasn't going to take it, but what would you do?
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