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I've had someone tell me over and over that it's weird that I keep my family at a distance. My parents are deceased and I've been working slowly on repairing the trauma of that with my siblings. We see each other in small but quality filled amounts and don't get disappointed if we can't see each other during holidays whereas my bf's family guilt him if they can't see him twice a year.I'm due with child around Christmas and his mother wants to come "and help" with the baby, but I want to incubate for a month before anyone even touches the baby but me and his dad. He didn't understand my wishes and said I was a cold hearted person...because my mother is gone. the thing is, I don't know his mom very well and I don't want to get attached to her if I am unsure about marrying her son. What is the best way to handle potential inlaws when there's so much that is unanswered?
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