One of my best friends asked me to stand up in her wedding. Out of haste and excitement, I accepted. I've already bought the dress and the wedding is in Novemeber. The problem is, I cannot afford it. It is in the Carribean. I am a single mother, with one job, I am going through an expensive custody battle and cannot afford a week in the carribean, a cash gift at the wedding, the gift at the shower, and all of the other expenses that come along with it. I know that the groomsmen have not all been picked out yet. At least three, which gives me some room. I really wanted to be a part of her day, but, I just cannot afford it. What are my options? She is one of my greatest friends.
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