How do I show her that I'm the one?

Question

I've been hanging with this girl. Whole lot of flirting back and forth. The other day while working on a project she starts telling me all this kinky stuff she is into(whips, candle wax, etc). I confess that I'm a virgin. She says she respects my reasons( its not a marriage thing, I just don't believe in casual s*x). I really like her, but she's kinda giving me the "focus on school" thing. She sent me a s**y picture of her in underwear the other day. She told me that there is this other guy who is also interested in her, who likes all her favorite bands and stuff like that. She also tells me that she wouldn't be as apprehensive about dating me if I wasn't a virgin. I really like this girl and I believe her when she says that she isn't ready to start dating again. I just wanna be the one, when she does.

Answer 1

i think you should be more aggressive if you want her you need to take her...it seems to me that she views you as a innocent little boy and you need to show her otherwise because she sounds like a pretty lose chick

Answer 2

Well honey , i'm gonna give it to yor straight: The fact that you are a virgin is a beautiful thing. Gosh, how many men can say that and it be true, Only God knows... At any rate, her sending you the pic w/the underwear on is meant to entice you to desire her to awaken your manly part. If maintaining your virginity is important to you then you will find the right woman with the right motives. If there is ever a need to ask a question about anything that you are uncertain about, then it means that variables are there that contribute to your feeling of "let me ask a question." When things are right, there are miminal questions. I don't think she's the one for you.  

Answer 3

Perhaps, if you truly were the one. You would need no help showing her.  

Answer 4

YEah she sounds like a loose chick. Anyway she mite b scared she might ruin ur morals or something, as she's not a virgin and you are, and also you dont believe in casaul s*x. Mayb she's just worried about you. That's all i can think of !