How do I show him I love him?

Question

Okay, so i am in love with this guy. Not only is he just some guy but he's the father of my daughter. We've recently been through a lot of drama, (not on my part) and we're trying to work things out.

I would like some positive tips on how to show him I love him. Throughout our relationship thus far I've sent the "i love you" e-mails, the random love notes, and even the miscellaneous gifts.

I would like some input on things that have worked for you and what may work for me. I'm open to any point of view.

Thank you

=)

Answer 1

open him up.

meaning show him new experiences and tease him

Answer 2

Be an attentive listener, something we women tend not to be. We women are always talking or trying to solve a crisis just be a good listener. Be a best friend, don't judge, give unconditional love. Not gifts, not cards, selfless love that's giving of oneself. Example would be your time.

Answer 3

As long as it is reciprocated I would be careful. I usually make dinner for two and make it romantic. I dress up for my hubby. We go out on dates, walks. If I did something to upset him I will make up for it. I will make the house spotless and change things around. He is also respectful that I take care of our two little boys. I just make sure we stay connected. On a personall level we try Tantric s*x and Taoist s*x.  

Answer 4

You must be strong and let go of what you can not fix,people don't change and in no case you can buy love,he's not just loving you but obviously he isn't a responsible parent,you have to take charge and not let the child go trough the life without your love,it seems like you give yourself to him,what about make him feel like you are going on with your life just as beautiful without him and be strong,you are not alone.

Good luck,freespirit