Accord to my other question, I didn’t get much help. So I want to try ask something else.
I have four kids from 18 to 32. Two of the middle kids are doing well in life. My oldest son, Sam owns and run a model agency, photography studio, and is starting his own fashion line with one of his model. He also do military contractor and fight in kick boxing event sometime. My youngest son, Kevin just graduated from high school and got accepted into college. But Kevin is seriously considering not going to college and tries to go on one of adventure like as his oldest brother did.
I don’t like how Sam is living his life. I don’t want Kevin to go through what Sam did. But the biggest problem is Sam think he live a better and more exciting life than most people. He isn’t making any effort to discourage Kevin from doing something crazy. He basically tell Kevin it’s better to die try to live a life he want to than living a rat race life.
I don’t think Kevin realize how much pain, hardship, violent, and horrible things Sam have went through. Basically I can see Sam isn’t the person he use to be and is insensitive and somewhat cold. I don’t want Kevin to go through the same thing. But Kevin is really taking Sam’s advice seriously. How can I get Kevin to see that Sam’s life isn’t that good at all/
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