How do I stop being a boring and dry person to talk to?

Question

I have a set of friends who are extremely huge chatterboxes and getting amused about everything and anything is too usual for them. They enjoy this but I don’t, so they fully pay no attention to me in our group if I have nothing to contribute. It has always been like this these days so I happen to get used to this and I lose confidence in myself because I never have an opinion and nothing to say.

If have a chat to practically anyone, it often gets quiet and I judge this is because I’m boring and dry. How do I become interesting and stop making people bored stiff?

Answer 1

Just be yourself, it's the easiest thing to do.  If that feels like you're being dry and boring so be it.  I don't say much (cause I'm dry and boring) and other people make up the difference.  I found that when I do have something to say it's hard to get a couple words out before someone's interupted me!  It really is a case of don't worry about it too much, in the right company you will fit in just fine.  Quiet moments are fine too.  Funny how people tend to feel awkward at those times.

Answer 2

You are who you are. Don't try to change yourself. There are introverted people and extroverted people. A lot of people think that if you are not extroverted and outgoing then something is wrong with you. Why don't people that are chatterboxes try to be more like you? If you were offered a subject about something that you love, then you probably would have more to offer conversationally. Maybe you should should hang around people more like you. Sounds like you don't have much in common with this current group of friends. When you find a group of people more like you you probably would have a better time. Check out the quiet people. Good luck.

Answer 3

change your antics, be fun and bubbly. life is short make it worthwhile.. :)