How do I stop being so scared...?

Question

I previously just broke up with a guy who didn't treat me very well...and I am honestly still not over the jerk.

However, I'm in college now...and I met this amazing guy at my school. He knew some stuff about the guy i dated and he knows how bad he treated me. Well, it's been a week...and this new guy has been texting me a lot and trying to get to know me more. He even asked me out on a date! In addition, he always calls me beautiful ( unlike the other guy...who just said i look really cute or just...great). But anyway, I can't seem to get away from this jerk...he keeps on asking me out on dates still...but I can't ever decline from them =[ Plus, I feel like it's not fair to the other guy as well...even though he does know that i'm still hurt and he has been a big help to help get over him. It's just that the new guy is PERFECT...and I'm not used to perfect =[

Answer 1

The only way you can get over the jerk guy is if he gets over you. Tell him straight that he should stop contacting you because you have no interest in him. If he continues or starts being mean then just block contact with him or if it gets really serious then tell someone ( family or police.)

As for the new guy you should go on a date with him otherwise he will lose interest in you if you keep saying no. Don't let your ex ruin your future tell him to f**k off or be really harsh make sure he gets the message 100 %.  

Answer 2

You have your clue there.... Always go with a guy who thinks, talks and let you feel your beautiful..

It is enough to start, ignite and continue a relationship.

Answer 3

There Is No Such Thing As Perfect The New Guy Might Be A Step Up From The Last One But, If This Guy Is Pushing You This Much and Crowding You He Might Not Be All What You See. Go Out, See The World You Are More Important Than Any Guy Around You.............. Don't Let One Bad Relationship Ruin Other Possibilities Of Relationships, and Don't Dive Into A Relationship, Dip Your Feet In A Few Pools Before You Commit

Answer 4

I see 2 things here:

1. u need to feel ugly and treated wrong. Even if you don't recognize it.

A person who wants to be confident and happy, is attracted to sincere and happy people. If she doesn't, then she is attracted to wrong people.

2. It is very easy to be nice to a girl on which u can project anything u like in the beginning. it's very easy to treat nice ur fantasy.

Girls are so naive about it.

But of course, that doesn't mean that all boys are lying and have hidden interests...

What is sure is that u have to ask urself what u really want, and why you are attracting jerks...

Everyone attracts what one needs... so watch closely...

Answer 5

do you watch s*x and the city? because that would be a great help, they talk about those kind of situations all the time.

I don't know what to tell you except get some self control, you're just gonna have to stay firm and tell the jerk 'no' and don't let him change your mind.