How do I stop looking up to her?

Question

Like i have this adult like friend and i really look up to her...i mean i think she is doing so good with her life that it makes me wanna be like her...but i dnt!!! And i just think that she is so pretty, and i alwaz wna be around her, but i been noticing lately that i have been gettin a little annoying to her and i cnt help it, and i dnt wnt her just to stop likin me. So i figured if someone tell me how to not really look up to her any more then i will feel better cuz im kinda tired of lookin up to her anywaz, i just cant help it....SO PLEAZ HELP..PLEAZ!!

Answer 1

Be happy for her and be her friend.You know now that maybe you need to back off a little so you can stop feeling envious of her. Be proud of your accomplishments and don't set your standards to what someone else is doing. It is okay to look up to someone but entirely different if you idolize her and now she is doing things that make you question your amazement of her. She is human like everyone else.

You are just as special and I am sure she feels the same way about you and you just don't know it.