How do I stop my mother from meddling into my friendship?

Question

Ok there's this girl, my best friend, whom I USED to love real bad. Since then my crush ended. Anyway my mom says that while she's a nice girl, I should watch out for her and that she isn't always the best of friends for me (confusing). While I appreciate that she wants the best for me, it often becomes over barring. It's not like I'm blind I know sometimes my friend should treat me better. It's just that it adds tension to this otherwise aw some friendship and I can handle my life for myself.

Answer 1

good luck with that.i think every kid on god's green earth has tried to figure that out and has failed.maybe you can be the first.good luck

Answer 2

You need to tell your mother how she is making you feel. also tell her you are quite capable of dealing with this relationship. If you don't talk to her about it how is she going to know...you could tell her that you don't need her to state the obvious when it comes to you and this girl, but do it in a kind , calm , mature way...you dad should talk to her about this emotionally dependant stuff ..it's not healthy for both of you.

Answer 3

tell her, ( if you live in a a place where you become an adult @ 18) i'm almost an adult, if you are not almost an adult you can still say the rest of this.and anyways, it is my friends, not yours. i know you are looking out for me, but its getting overbearing. anyways, how will i ever learn life's lessons if you are giving me all the answers?