How do I stop the need to m********e!!?

Question

Well guys, I'm 13 and I'm going through puberty and i really wanna stop masturbating because I'm gonna get caught, i try stopping the erges by playing guitar but the stupid tv always shows a hot chick on there, playing guitar helps a little but what are some ways which will help?

I pretty much only wanna stop because i heard its un healthy, is it really?

Answer 1

no its not unhealthy

Answer 2

It cannot be stopped.  And it should never be stopped.  Its required for proper health.  The real answer is that nothig you do is better for you than that, and there is no limit to how often you do it.

The more you do it the better it all works.  Its like telling someone to stop lifting weights because it won't help them get any stronger.

Rubbish.  You need to stop thinking that and start getting with the program.  As an adult I do it 4 to 5 times a day.  As a young teen this was a s high as 26 times one day, but mostly about 10.

Sure its a lot but I am very happy today and that might be the cause of my better than normal s*x drive as an adult.

Hope that answers your qustion.

Answer 3

look here bra...i was 13 when i did it...she was 19...get laid and shut the fck up...otherwise at least try to bone ur dog or somethin

Answer 4

When I was 13 -25 I beat that thing whenever and wherever I could, sometimes 5 times a day, and still had hot girlfriends at the time!

And now at 40 I'm very proud of my 7 inch killer!

Answer 5

i wouldn't even try to stop becuase you won't suceed.

this urge will be with you for life and if you don't m********e, you are depriving yourself of much pleasure. you will get wet dreams which are sticky and messy.

everyone masturbates. how can it be wrong?

just try to limit yourself to morning and before sleep. clean up after yourself and you won;t be hurting anyone.

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Answer 6

excessive masturbation (anymore than 2-3 times per week) will shink your p***s and stunt growth.

control your urges and beat off no more than twice per week

I know i may get thumbs down for this answer but it's only because people can't accept the truth because they dont have the will power to stop jerkin off.....DON'T be like them

EDIT: Most male p**n stars have p***s enlargment surgery - just like female ones have boob jobs and vaginoplasty

Answer 7

It's not unhealthy at all. I used to m********e once a day for three years! And I think I am healthy. But, if you really want to stop, try this:

- Every time you get horny, go out and do some sport, whichever you prefer, or

- Have a cold bath for a minute.

Anyway, there's nothing wrong about doing it if you are a teenager, don't worry.

Answer 8

You will be blinded, grow hair on the palms of your hands, lose your teeth and probably be confined to a wheel chair for the rest of your lives.

You know our Creator(you choose whom you want) gave us s*x as a gift.  As long as you hurt no one there is no harm done.  Right now your body is full of raging hormones and your reactions are normal...

There was a Southern Comedian called Jerry Clower whose catch line was.."Ain't God good?"

Answer 9

Masturbation is very good for your health! This is from Wikipedia:

"A 1997 study in the British Medical Journal based upon 918 men age 45-59 found that after a ten year follow-up, men who had fewer orgasms were twice as likely to die of any cause as those having two or more orgasms a week."

Put another way - having at least two orgasms a week halves your chance of dying between the ages of 45 and 59.

You can see how this makes sense - when you m********e your heart beats faster, and your breathing speeds up. Since the heart and lungs are two of the most important organs in the body, any safe activity that exercises them is good for your general health.

Other studies have found that frequent masturbation reduces the risk of prostate cancer - a doctor who studied the evidence recommended that teenagers m********e at least six times a week. It is thought that regular ejaculation clears the prostate gland of chemicals that can cause cancer.

PLEASE could you also read this, and be sure to read it all through - the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

The following comment from a health professional was posted recently on this site:

"I am a dad and I talk to my children about masturbation and let them know that's its not wrong and that they should be comfortable with it.

I am a 41 year old school health advisor."

Jackinworld did a survey of its readers aged 11 to 19 and obtained the following results:

Average Masturbation Frequencies by Age:

11: 11.1 times per week

12: 9.4

13: 10.6

14: 10.6

15: 9.9

16: 9.6

17: 9.4

18: 8.5

19: 9.3

Remember these are averages - some will m********e more often, some less.

I'm REALLY sorry that getting caught is such a problem for you. If you were my son I'd already have told you that masturbating was good and healthy, and made sure you had a lock on your door. If you have your own bedroom you could do it in bed; if not you'll just have to manage in the shower, or spend a bit longer using the toilet!

Fortunately I did have my own bedroom by the age of 13; and my parents did the shopping on Saturday mornings, so I had the house to myself - a perfect opportunity to m********e with no fear of interruption.

If there is anything else you need to know - click on my name to get to my Profile, and you can email me anonymously via Yahoo Answers. That ensures that all communications are confidential.

Masturbation is such a beautiful and exciting part of male life; I very much hope you will find a way to enjoy it, and satisfy those urges. Good luck!

Answer 10

beat that $h!t like it stole something.....

Answer 11

LAWLS.  dont try to resist. that only means that youre mature enough for sexual activity. the act itself is not unhealthy, but the method of stimulation can be.

i dont know what to tell you on not getting caught. just hav to keep a look out on your surroundings before you engage in your activities.

Answer 12

Not at all unhealthy mate, its perfectly natural, you wont go blind, it wont fall off, w*nk til ur heart is content. dont let any religous or fuddy duddy moron tell you that you should stop. at ur age its totally normal.

Now get off yahoo answers and go have a w*nk.

it does not make it smaller or stunt growth...if that were true p**n stars would have tiny little ones

Answer 13

look dude if you dont want to get caught just do it in the toilet and just for the record its not bad for you to excessily m********e as long as its not more than 2 a day and as long as its not getting in the way of your school work and a social life.

Answer 14

It's not unhealthy.  i started when i was 12 and have had no problems 33 years later.  Getting caught is part of the game. Believe me your mom and dad have done it and probably still do it.  Just keep that bull in the barn in and around people and you'll be fine.